A big problem that crops up in relationships has to do with the
need to ‘fix’. It’s so easy to spot less-than-perfect aspects in
another, and generally we have a pretty good idea of how the other
people can improve themselves and their quality of life.
That’s all fine and good except the other person a) doesn’t think there’s anything wrong or lacking in their reality and b) hasn’t asked for our opinion!
At an energetic level when we try to fix someone else, several things happen. First, we have gone into judgment, which lowers our own vibration. Second, our energy follows our attention, so without realizing it, we have created an energetic drain for ourself. On top of this, when we push our desire for the betterment of another in their direction, generally they will push back to us subconsciously and energetically as well. Ouch.
All we ever really want from another (beside love and acceptance, the obvious) is information. This information is best exchanged at the level of the higher self, not by our ego minds. When we can become conscious enough to realize that everything we want to ‘fix’ in another is a reflection of something we think is broken in ourself, then we can ask that the appropriate information being held at the level of our Higher Self to correct this mistake be reflected down to us, where we can model that right energy to the outer world.
Makes for happier relationships all around!
For more info: http://www.jeanadrienne.com/
That’s all fine and good except the other person a) doesn’t think there’s anything wrong or lacking in their reality and b) hasn’t asked for our opinion!
At an energetic level when we try to fix someone else, several things happen. First, we have gone into judgment, which lowers our own vibration. Second, our energy follows our attention, so without realizing it, we have created an energetic drain for ourself. On top of this, when we push our desire for the betterment of another in their direction, generally they will push back to us subconsciously and energetically as well. Ouch.
All we ever really want from another (beside love and acceptance, the obvious) is information. This information is best exchanged at the level of the higher self, not by our ego minds. When we can become conscious enough to realize that everything we want to ‘fix’ in another is a reflection of something we think is broken in ourself, then we can ask that the appropriate information being held at the level of our Higher Self to correct this mistake be reflected down to us, where we can model that right energy to the outer world.
Makes for happier relationships all around!
For more info: http://www.jeanadrienne.com/
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